I love to study astrology. The more I learn the more I realise the vastness of the subject. My father taught me the starting lessons in the summer of year 2000 and since then each day I realize the vastness of the three dimensional moving science. In recent times I have begun to analyse into the horoscopes of my friends much to their insistence. The unmarried clan want to know what the destiny holds for them in the areas of love and marriage while the married counterparts are more concerned with the stability of the marriage on children, finance .... The one question which bothers me is often is " Extra marital affairs" How is my spouse's charecter, will she/he cheat on me??
The first rule of thumb is to check on the eleventh house and its lord for such matters. This is in relation to ones spouse's tendency to flirt. While eleventh house stands for friends, gains in business, elder co-borns, income, gains, realization of hopes, ankles this is the house to know for spouse's lovers. Since eleventh house is the fifth from the seventh house. However, eleventh house would be indicative of spouse's love affairs depending on the weakness of the seventh house as well. There should be a relation between ones weak seventh house and the eleventh house. If ones seventh house is weak or the lord is ill placed and if the eleventh house contains an expansive planet like Guru or sukhra then we can be certain that during the period of elevent house the spouse will fall into relation outside of marriage. Because Guru / Sukra wants to have it all.
If you wonder about your spouse's chastity, check eleventh house, its lord both in rashi and navamsha. If you are undergoing the eleventh house lord dasa and if the current transit brings rahu ( foreigner) and if one goes through rahu ketu return. For the case of an example, a Makara lagna having mars debilitated in karka the seventh house could bring marital troubles due to the same but not necessarily the end of marriage.
For vrischika lagna, L-8/L-11 Budha is an especially strong indictor of extramarital affairs. Lord of randhra bhava is usually responsible for termination of the first marriage whether through death of the spouse or simply saturation/ death of the marriage i.e., divorce.
Simultaneously during a bhukti of of youthful, mentalized Budha, the Vrischikha native may experience the breakdown of fossilized marriage & the possible development of extramarital affair - but of course this is only likely if Budha's condition warrants such behavior.
Similarly Vrishaba lagna people should watch out for the periods of Guru dasa or bhukthi.
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i always wonder about this since I am manglik and hubby is not.. I heard if its like this the non manglik usually get into this kind of stuff.
mommyof 2,
No there is no such set rule between a mankalik and non magalik where the non mangalik get into an affair. Much depeds on the lagna, the fifth house of the spouse, and the current dasa and bukti along with any transiting planets.
Please dont jump into any conclusions about u being magalik and uer husband not so. :)
Rgds
So a debiliated mangal and rahu in the 7th house and venus ( in scorpio) indicates extra marital affairs of self/spouse?
I sent you an email to your gmail account. if you want me to post it here, let me know. regards, ravichandran.
Amu,
Seventh house is not the indicator of extra marital affairs. Seventh house indicates your own kalatra sukam, which means the pleasure u will derive from spouse. Your partnership and how you move as a team member etc. The planet in the sevent house is highly indicative of your own marital life, in general and your charecter as well since it would aspect your lagna.
Rgds Bramha
Ravi,
Received your mail. Will reply by email.
Bramha
please see the horoscope and tell about his wife is his wife will get into ''Extramarital Affair''?
If yes! then when ?
07-02-1972// 06:15 am.// patna(bihar)
Ms. Abhilasha, good morning. usually, the extra marital affair happen/begin (how it happens or what date/time it exactly happens is controlled by fate) usually on the dasha/bhukti/ of 11th house's expansive lords influence (pl. note the word influence). it could be presence + lordhsip + aspect.
there are other thigns that happen in cheated spouse's horoscope - such as unhappiness in family in gochara (guru in 6th place - rahu or ketu in 2nd), or dasha/bhukti or the like. the kids might have that one of their parents will have an extra companion etc.
this is what my astrologer told me. exact details of date, time, and place will be under the control of fate.
have a nice weeekend.
Just by seeing the 11th lord and 7th lord one cant finalize if his/ her spouse will have extra-martial relationship. If any one does so i am sure that wont be right. It is clearly said planets in 12th house indicate extra-martial affair for oneself. As 12th is 6th to 7th house, which means enemy to ones spouse. And many such. In my idea placement of Venus, Mars & Ragu along with Jupiter the Guru should be studied. Why Guru?? Many of us don't know Guru i.e. Jupiter has the name Bogakara. If Venus is strong and afflicted one gets extra-martial affairs and if Jupiter is strong enough he/ she can be successful in creating the so called extra martial relation into a successful physical or sex relation or else the so called affair will never flower. If Jupiter is strong for it will flower and also yield fruits (children).
Hi Bramha,
I'm loking for a suitable groom for my niece. I have received a the birth details from a prospective bride groom. However according to my limited knowledge in astrlogy I think it has ill effects after marriage. I would like to know your opinion as well. The birth details of the gent is
date - 16th February 1981
time - 4.46 am
place - Colombo, Sri Lanka.
Your help will be greatly appreciated.
Kind regards,
Renu
Vrishaba lagna people should watch out for the periods of Guru dasa or bhukthi. (for extra marital affairs)
true true true
great prediction !
I thought the 11th lord's dasha or bhukti of the native will bring extra-marital affairs for the spouse. Any 'A' 's comment provides another persp. thanks.
Hello Bramha/Ravi,
I am 32 old lady who is simple and very honest to husband. My astrolger told me that I may have extra marital affair. Initially I didn't belive as I love my hubby very much. Later after many year, lot of misunderstanding arised due to one lady in our life. I got depressed for nothing (may be my ill fate) and started hating my hubby. Since marriage he is working in Gulf. I didn't have anyone to share my emotions. One of my relative become very close and that led to affair. Later my hubby came to know that we were close. This led a issue. I cried and apologized and promised him that I won't think about that guy. After 1 and half year that guy again started calling me and trying to be close. I am very confused. I don't want to cheat my hubby. God has given everthing loving hubby, cute kids except marital happiness. I don't want to jump to old relation again. But whenever he calls, I could not resist. I wonder why this is happening. I don't want to spoil my life. Is there any remedies for this?
Since I facing sade sath daily I recite Hanuman chalisa.
My date of birth is 12-June-1978 time 3:30 pm and place Harihara (Karnataka)
Please help me
Ms Supravi,
good evening. congratulations and good wishes to u as you are trying your best to avoid a bad situation. that is very commendable and to reach out for help, reciting hanuman chalisa and other prayers. these MIGHT help you to avoid bad situations - NO guarantees.
further, not to glorify or justify infidelous relations, these things happen not because you desparately go out for seeking 'extra' relationship - but it happens due to prev lives karmic relations. if people accuse u - just ask, why a relationship DID NOT blossom with his brother, friend, neighbor, or another cousin of similar status. in your case, the 2nd person being a relative makes falling from the 'slippery' moral pedestal easier due to life long acquintance. the society to protect the family structure has these rules in place and people get judgemental becos by god's grace it did not happen to them.
as per remedies you have done the 1st step of reachng out for help.
Ms Supravi,
good evening. congratulations and good wishes to u as you are trying your best to avoid a bad situation. that is very commendable and to reach out for help, reciting hanuman chalisa and other prayers. these MIGHT help you to avoid bad situations - NO guarantees.
further, not to glorify or justify infidelous relations, these things happen not because you desparately go out for seeking 'extra' relationship - but it happens due to prev lives karmic relations. if people accuse u - just ask, why a relationship DID NOT blossom with his brother, friend, neighbor, or another cousin of similar status. in your case, the 2nd person being a relative makes falling from the 'slippery' moral pedestal easier due to life long acquintance. the society to protect the family structure has these rules in place and people get judgemental becos by god's grace it did not happen to them.
as per remedies you have done the 1st step of reachng out for help.
contd.
there is something wrong with the whole comments section. my posts r disappearing.
as Yogi-ji had indicated above your post, the presence of an expansive planet such as rahu in the 12th (enemies or challengers - 6th from the spousal 7th house increases chance of xtra marital affairs; in simple terms = 12th house happens to be 6th house when counted from 7th). your husband will face challenges from other men. Mars, the lord of 7th happens to be with saturn conjunct (less than 4 degs apart) - saturn and mars r enemies and saturn is in his enemies house = the strengthening part is mars is in his friends house.
from a character perspective, u r a good character person inspite of that event that u feel bad abt. 4th lord is in stira rashi and the same abt the 7th lord.
since rahu is in the 12th, and since u would have rahu bhukti from jul 2007 thro 2009 jan, that is the time you might have reached out to your relative - rahu has to churn out some prev live karmic relation and bring it into your life. similar episode could happen in early part of 2017 when rahu crosses ur natal moon.
http://www.barbarapijan.com/bpa/Graha/Rahu/Rahu_gochara_Chandra.htm
if the relative came into your life in 2007, around that time, ketu would have crossing ur natal moon to finish off previous unwatned desires and bring awareness of new things.
having said all these, i have to conclude that you are NOT out of danger for extra marital relations. somewhere i read that 2nd lord from sun - if it is not rahu, venus, ketu, or moon, then that planet is an indicator of ur extra marital relation. in ur case, it is jupiter, also jup is the 3rd n 6th lord - who is not a good guy. i presume, ur relative guy and urself r brahmin. ur extra relation could be a brahmin or spiritually inclined.
coming back to navamsha (approx horoscp of ur spouse) - 7th in navamsha (that is indicator of urself) has venus and moon. moon n venus in lagna (approximately), indicates a good looking and sensous person. nothing to feel ashamed abt having a strong venus (bad 4 marriage). so he might be unable to forget u.
my suggestion would be to get good astrologers - go with your husband and try out the pariharams they suggest. ur husband shud be prsent for every such consultation and try to 'extract' from the astro abt the extra marital arrangement 4 ur horoscop. let ur husband understand this and this will help him to provide an opptty to react in a supportive way to help you cross this problem. AGAIN no guarantees. 12 yrs from now, when u get rahu dasha - it will be a roller coaster ride - good thing is that rahu is crossing ur natal moon during that time.
i have 3 astrologers who can provide advise and pariharam lists - some of them would not suggest pariharams if they feel it might not work.
1. mr sr laxminarayanan - www.angalama.com (blr: 080-2530-7583).
2. mr ms kavirajan - 044-2476-6436 - currently touring bangalore.
3. mr m jagadeeshwaram - salem - 94430-27654,
they have helped me to avoid major damage to my marital life - but THEY HAVE not ruled out any more relationships till 2020.
each astrologer mentioned in this list is talented in their own ways - when i talked to them independently, they have not contradicted each other. they have the capacity to help you. if their HELP does not work, then you are fated to have an extra marital relations.
regards
ravichandran
Supravi-ji,
if you need to contact me: mravichandran @ hotmail . com.
have a good weekend.
ravichandran
HosenDecoy,
whose date of birth is it? yours or your wife?
regards
Ravi.
i am married but having extra relations with my ex lover. 16.12.1986 5:30am tiruchchirapalli born. i want my ex lover's baby only because my husband's sperm count is very low. pls advice
Ms Jillu,
I will respond to you when I find time.
my email: mravichandran at hotmail.com - pl give me a couple of days.
regards
ravichandran
Hi Ravi,
I am married when I was 30, before that I had 2 strong love affairs, both had a bitter end. After my marriage I am very devoted to my husband, but our marriage life is struggling because of his romantic indulgence with other women. His conduct with our servant is very doubtful. I am very much stressed because of his indulgence with other woman. Kindly advice me if this will affect our marriage or not?
My dob is 09-10-1976 5:50 AM
My husband's dob - 20-03-1972 01:10 AM.
Kindly suggest me some remedies.
Regards
Ammu
Ammu,
good morning. you did not indicate the place of birth.
since the name ammu is used in t.nadu, i have put ur place of birth as madras, mylapore for u n ur husb.
even tho you have fair compatblity, u could have hiccups in your married life.
the person matching has done a good job - no doubt.
further, ur 2 prevous broken relationships, people might accuse you of being too pushy/dominating etc. do shiva stotrams to pacify sun. as people with sun in simha lagna people will have marriage issues. sun is in his own hous and in the lagna - you are strong personality with a long life. but the 7th aspect of the sun makes ur married life difficult.
your 11th house recvs the aspect of rahu from teh 3rd house. 11th house being the spouse's romantic relations - you have rahu, of the lower caste influenceing the spouse's romantic relations. rahu is an expansive planet - who will increase the attraction of ur husband to other woman.
his marriage lord mercury is debilitated (neecham) in ubhaya-rashi. so his marriage lord is also weakend; his marriage lord more weakened that yours.
his marriage lord is weak, anything can cause issues - in this case, it is a servant maid or whatever.
for you, reading lakshmi and mahavishnu stotrams - anything that takes less than 30 mins to 1 hour every day except during ur periods should bring some relief.
there r no guarantees that women would STOP trying to 'attract' ur husband. some do it for previous lives karmic balances that they hav to get out of u and ur husband. if you understand that one or both of you are indebted to that servant in this life in some form, and that she is taking back karmic dues, you wud be subjected to less stress.
good luck
ravichandran
Hi Ravi,
Thanks for the reading , Both of us are from cochin, I think my Lagna is Kanni and my husband's Dhanu.
We have a girl child of 3.5 years old. From the day one of our marriage we are facing financial difficulties, he had a nature of taking debts and loans from everywhere, I am against to that nature, and we have frequent quarrels for that, but in my heart I feel he is not ready to understand me .
I always doubt he hate me because of his relation with the other women.
My daughter dob is 11-feb-2006 14:15 Cochin.
My daughter is stressed because of our quarrels,
Kindly suggest remedies based on the new lagna
Thanks
Ammu
Sorry Ravi,
A correction of dob of my daughter 11-feb-2008 14:15 Cochin
dear Ammu,
you are still simha lagna not kanya lagna - people on the western side of india get their lagnas mixed up due to late sunrise and sun set and this gets affected when it is done manually. so, my pariharams suggestions above in my prev postings are correct.
i am using jagannath hora software and according my astros in madras, hora software's mathematical calculations are perfect. so kanya lagna is not correct. u r simha lagnam. regards, ravi.
sir... please respond to my query... im so confused... i need a baby for sure. i am married and childless. so i want my ex lover's baby. my husband's sperm count is very less. he cant help me. relatives are asking us day on day for good news.
Jillu,
i think your question is beyond my core expertise. i do not know how to guide you.
since you are from tamil nadu, there are 3 astrologers you can contact - pl see my reply to supravi shriyaan. they can be help you better than i can.
sorry for the delay in letting you know this. i thought about your question for 2 days - and frankly could not find a way.
good luck
ravi.
Imagine my state of mind sir... atleast with your expert outlook of astrology u can predict the progeny prospects in my case... my problem is the rahu in 5th house. My husband's details is 5th Nov 1977 at 4:10am in Chennai. Pls help me.
Husband 03/01/1982 18:00 Godhra
Wife 24/03/1985 07:15 Godhra
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